Relationship Tips In Hindi 5 Steps To Save Your Relationship

Relationship Tips In Hindi

Ego: kisee bhee rishte ke lie ye sabase bada zahareela tatv hai. eego aapako kuchh palon ke lie to ek jeet ka ehasaas zaroor dila sakata hai lekin isake badale aap kya kuchh haar jaate hain yah baad mein pata chalata hai. eego aapake rishte ko khokhala kar sakata hai kyonki dheere dheere aapake apane bhee aapase door hone lagate hain kyonki rishton mein hamesha jhukakar chalane kee, edajest karane kee aur ek-doosare ko saport karane kee zaroorat hotee hai lekin aapaka eego aapako yah sab karane se rokata hai. behatar hoga eego kam aur pyaar zyaada rakhen.

Communication Gap: baatacheet na karana kisee samasya ka hal nahin balki yah rishton ko aur ulajha deta hai. ek-doosare se shikaayat ho ya vivaad ho gaya ho to man shaant hote hee us par baat karen. baat karana hee samaadhaan hai. baat na karane kee aadat dheere dheere dooriyaan badhane lagatee hain aur rishte kamazor hone lagate hain.

Irsha (Jealous): aapas mein pratiyogee na banen, aap saathee hain aur ek doosare ka sahaara bhee. ek doosare kee kaamayaabee ka jashn manaen na ki eershya paalen. aksar aisa dekha gaya hai ki ghar ke sadasy aapas mein hee pratiyogita karane lag jaate hain yah jataane ke lie ki vo shreshth hain ya unakee soch hamesha sabase sahee hotee hai. aise mein doosare kee zara see galatee par bhee vo use sunaane aur neecha dikhaane lagate hain ki mainne pahale hee kaha tha ya dekha tumhaaree samajh aur akl ke bharose to kuchh nahin ho sakata. is tarah kee bhaavanaen nakaaraatmakata phailaatee hain, inase bachen.

Dhokha: paartanar ko cheet na karen aur yah dhokha kaee tarah ka ho sakata hai, pyaar ka, paison ka ya phir zimmedaaree ka. rishte se baahar logon ko apana samajhana, apanon ke beech paison ko lekar zyaada chaalaakee karana, zimmedaaree se bachane ka bahaana khojana- ye sab dhokha hee hai. rishte nibhaane ke lie rishton ko jeena aur zimmedaaree lena seekhana padata hai. paison se oopar uthakar sochana padata hai.

Jhooth: yah kisee bhee rishte ko kamazor kar sakata hai. jhooth chaahe kitana bhee meetha ho lekin vo sach kee jagah kabhee nahin le sakata. koshish karen ki rishton mein eemaanadaar bane rahen aur jhooth ko panapane hee na den. apanee samasyaayen sheyar karen, chhipaen nahin, sheyar karane se unaka hal nikal sakata hai aur chhupaane se vo badhatee chalee jaatee hain aur isake lie aapako jhooth par jhooth bhee bolane padate hain, jinaka khulaasa hone par aap par se apanon ka hee bharosa uth jaata hai. behatar hoga ki sach ke saath rahen aur apane rishton ko bhee sachcha banaen.

Maafee maangane se kyon kataraate hain purush?

“I Am Sorry” aapp jitne aasaanise yeh word apane partner ko keh detee hain, kya vo bhee utnee hee simplyse aapase maafee maang lete hain? shaayad nahin. kuchh Khaas situationko chhod den, to aam taur par purush apanee galatee kelie maafee maangana pasand nehi karte hain. Purush khaasakar partner ko apanee se heen samajhate hain. unake lie sorry shabd behad mushkil hota hai. aakhir isakee kya vajah hai? aaie, jaanate hain.

Male Ego

purushon ke maafee maangane se kataraane kee sabase badee vajah hai mel eego yaanee unaka ahankaar. isee ahankaar kee vajah se ye jaanate hue bhee ki vo galat hain, paartanar se maafee nahin maangaten. aise logon ke lie unaka guroor hamasafar kee bhaavanaon se zyaada ahamiyat rakhata hai. Weh apane partner ka dil to dukhaa sakkte hain lekin sorry bolakar apane male ego ko hurt nahin kar sakkte. 

Zyaadaatar mahilaen bhee is baat se sahamat hain. ek meediya grup se judee meenaakshee kahatee hain “purushon ke maafee na maangane kee ekamaatr vajah mel eego hee hai, unhen lagata hai patnee se maafee maangane se unaka qad chhota ho jaega.” visheshagyon kee bhee kuchh aisee hee raay hai unake mutaabik “purushon ko lagata hai maafee maangane se unakee shaan ghat jaegee.”

Kamazoree kee nishaanee

saikolojist do. hareesh shettee ke mutaabik “purush maafee maangane ko kamazoree kee nishaanee samajhate hain. unhen lagata hai ki agar vo patnee se maafee maangege to vo unhen kamazor samajhane lagegee, use lagega ki pati parivaar kee zimmedaaree uthaane ke qaabil nahin hai.” isalie maafee maangakar vo khud ko paartanar kee nazaron mein giraana nahin chaahaten.

main galat nahin ho sakata

purushon ka apanee galatee na maanane vaala ravaiya bhee unhen maafee maangane se rokata hai. darasal, maafee maangane se unakee galatee saabit ho jaegee aur purush khaasataur se kisee mahila ke saamane kabhee galat saabit hona nahin chaahaten. do. shettee bhee is baat se sahamat hain, unaka kahana hai “purushon ko lagata hai ki vo jo kar rahe hain vahee sahee hai aur unhen kisee ko javaab dene kee zaroorat nahin hai.” ek pratishthit meediya grup se judee shivaanee ka kahana hai ki “padhe-likhe hone ke baavajood mere pati bahut domineting hain, agar kabhee unase koee galatee ho jae, to soree bolana do door kee baat hai, vo apanee galatee maanate tak nahin hain.”

soree bolane kee bajaay jataana

kuchh purush soree kahane kee bajaay maafee maangane ka doosara tareeqa akhtiyaar karate hain, jaise- paartanar ko phool, jvelaree, chokalet ya koee aur gift dekar apanee maafee maangane kee bhaavana vyakt karate hain. itana hee nahin, kaee baar vo paartanar ka zyaada khyaal rakhakar bhee apanee ye bhaavana zaahir karate hain. dilachasp baat to ye hai ki mahilaon ko bhee purushon ka bina bole maafee maangane ka ye andaaz pasand aata hai, bina kahe hee vo unakee bhaavanaon ko samajh jaatee hai.

kaise jaanen ki aapake pati ko kisee aur se pyaar ho gaya hai?

asveekrti ka dar

saamana karane se bachana

roodheevaadee vichaaradhaara

asveekrti ka dar

kuchh purush paartanar dvaara asveekaar kie jaane ke dar se maafee nahin maangate. unhen lagata hai ki maafee maangane se kaheen koee nakaaraatmak sthiti na utpann ho jae, isee dar se vo bhaavanaon kee udhedabun mein ulajhe rahate hain aur tay nahin kar paate ki maafee maangoo ya nahin? maafee maangane ke baad shaayad haalaat unake paksh mein na rahen. isee dar se vo ye nishchit nahin kar paate ki kab aur kaise paartanar ko soree kahen. do. shettee ke mutaabik “purushon ko is baat ka bhee dar rahata hai ki kaheen maafee maangane ke baad patnee unhen eksaploit na kare.”

saamana karane se bachana

kuchh purushon ke maafee na maangane kee ek vajah unakee paartanar bhee hotee hai. kaee baar mahilaen paartanar ke maafee maangane par unhen maaf karane kee bajaay sabak sikhaane ke iraade se bahas ya ladaee-jhagada karane lagatee hai, aise mein paartanar agalee baar maafee maangane se pahale sau baar sochata hai. use dar rahata hai ki soree bolane par phir kaheen koee bahas na shuru ho jae.

roodheevaadee vichaaradhaara

saikolojist do. hareesh shettee ke mutaabik “purush apane jis eego ya ahankaar kee vajah se mahilaon se maafee maangane se jhijhakate hain, usakee ek vajah purush pradhaan samaaj vaalee vidhaaradhaara hai. jis vajah se unhen lagata hai ki maafee maangana unakee maryaada ke khilaaf hai.” haalaanki ab haalaat badalane lage hain, baavajood isake kaheen na kaheen mel domineting vaalee soch ubhar hee aatee hai. agar ladake pareshaan ya dukhee hokar rote hain, to maata-pita turant kah dete hain ‘kya ladakiyon kee tarah ro rahe ho’, is tarah kahane se unake zehan mein ye baat baith jaatee hai ki ladakiyaan kamazor hotee hain aur kisee kamazor se bhala vo maafee kaise maang sakate hain.